Pssst…Men-Valentine’s Day Gifts We Actually Want and DON’T Want
February 5th, 2010
Ok, guys. I hope you read this and really LISTEN. Me and about 95% of the women out there like getting Valentine’s Day presents but there are some definite DO’S and DON’T’S when it comes to gift giving on V-Day. Yes, we all know Valentine’s Day can be a silly holiday but if you’re going to celebrate it, do it right or don’t do it at all. I’m not trying to sound ungrateful or rude, I’m just letting you know how most women think and what most really won’t tell you because they want to spare your feelings. Let’s start off with a few DON’TS.
Don’t #1- Please DO NOT get me a heart-shaped box of chocolates from CVS. We know it takes you 5 seconds to find a CVS and it’s the total easy way out. Yes, I love chocolate and if you have to get me the cliché box of chocolates, have a little class and get some nicely wrapped fine chocolate from Godiva or other chocolatier. DON’T #2 – Cheap Flowers. We can tell when you forgot that it’s Valentine’s Day (or our b-day, anniversary, etc) and you made a quick stop at 7-11 or bought a bouquet from the guy selling roses at the intersection by your house. We want nice flowers (nice means from a reputable florist)…even better, flowers that are delivered from a reputable florist. That will definitely make us smile.
Delivered flowers means that you took some precious time out of your day and thought about us. Women love that stuff!! Don’t forget to have the florist write something cute on the card. DON’T #3 – Please don’t tell me you want to spend V-Day together and then have nothing planned. Unless it’s decided ahead of time we’re going to sit at your house and watch a movie, you better have planned ahead because I’ll be pissed (and so will your lady). After all, it’s Valentine’s Day so try and impress us. Have a reservation made or cook a nice dinner at home. If we are hanging out with you at home…still have a plan. Rent our favorite movie, set the table with our favorite food/snacks, and of course have a beautifully wrapped present waiting for us to open!! Yes guys, I said it…A PRESENT!!! We LOVE presents so you better have taken some time out to shop. I’m not saying you need to buy her diamonds or a nice watch…how about a nice robe and some undies (of course from PantiesRequired.com), or a nice PJ set so she can snuggle up next to you while you’re watching that movie together. How about a gift card to her favorite department store (or an e-gift card to pantiesrequired.com)? How about a spa treatment for the two of you (or just her alone is also fine)? I think you get the point.
Of course since this is a lingerie website blog we strongly suggest you buy her a something nice from this website. Why wouldn’t you? We have a Man-Friendly quiz to help you out and also a Valentine’s Day section that has a lot of great ideas. The #1 perk when buying your lady lingerie: she’ll most likely wear it for you right away. Not only that, you can email lingerie expert, Randa Rose, (randa@pantiesrequired.com) and she’ll gladly help you pick out the perfect gift for your true love (or whoever she is). Don’t forget though, there is a little strategy when buying lingerie for a new relationship. If the relationship is very new and this is a girl you see a future with, we suggest getting her some loungewear or cute pajamas along with some undies. She doesn’t want some crazy sexy outfit you chose that screams ‘SEX’. Obviously you chose that outfit because YOU want to see her in it. The gift becomes about you then and not her. Wait until you get to that point in the relationship where you know it won’t offend her or when she voluntarily has already worn sexy outfits for you. Otherwise, try and play it safe and get her something she will still want to wear when she’s alone.
I gave you enough ideas for you to have a romance-filled Valentine’s Day with your lady. If you are still confused, feel free to email us!
If any of you ladies are reading this and you have some of these trouble’s with your man, perhaps you should subtly forward this on to him. Trust me, he will be happy you pointed him in the right direction and you won’t be disappointed!
Xo~ Randa












