For All The Single Ladies- 3 Dating MUST-DO’S
January 29th, 2010
Brushing up on my relationship reading (one of my favorite past times–understanding the dynamics between men and women), the book ‘Mars and Venus On a Date’ by John Gray reminded me of a few key points about men.
1. Men want to please you
2. Let a man work for it and for you. The satisfaction of ‘winning’ or making you happy is his reward (similar to a sports game)
3. There is no need to offer the entire pie upfront in anything you do. Feed him the crumbs, crust, maybe a slice a little bit at a time. The best food is always when you get a small taste and reach for it again and there is non left. That lingering flavor in your mouth is much more satisfy than a heaping slice of chocolate cream pie that you will regret or feel bloated from later.
So this Valentine’s Day when you are on a date or hanging out with a guy, make sure to let him exercise his role. He will be happy to do so. Just remember to be appreciative (without being overly appreciative/don’t do his laundry).
