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Spring is here and there’s no better time than now to freshen up your lingerie drawer!  We have a couple of our personal favorites to share with you.

Elle Macpherson Intimates Spree Chemise – How gorgeous is this blue?

Another  favorite is this Elle Macpherson ‘Cloud Swings’ bra and matching thong set.  This bra is made to push you up in all the right places.  The matching thong is perfectly sexy in the back.  It covers almost like a hot short (much more fabric in the back than your typical thong).

Need new a sexy new bikini?  Don’t forget to check out some of our new swimwear arrivals by Eberjey !

The suit above is Eberjey’s Striped First Mate Bikini.  This style was recently featured in Elle Magazine.

If you have any questions regarding sizing/styles/colors please email info@pantiesrequired.com.

If you are a fan of DailyCandy.com like we are you may have read about us in todays Daily Candy ‘Deals’ Section.  Instead of only letting Daily Candy readers in on this great sale, we decided we’d let OUR readers in on it as well!  We rarely have sales this big so take advantage of it now!  Enter promotional code:VALENTINE25 and save 25% off sitewide!  You’ll thank us later…and so will your significant other.  Happy Valentine’s Day.

PS. This code is valid through the month of February.

This model is wearing Eberjey’s Delirious Triangle Bralette and the matching Eberjey Delirious Lace Thong.

RealSimple.com obviously has great taste.  They recommended their readers to indulge in this lacy number by Eberjey.  Purchase this bralet and panty set at PantiesRequired.com.  Each piece sold separate:

http://www.pantiesrequired.com/index.php/eberjey-amandine-bralet.html

It’s that time of year again when the mornings are chillier and getting out of bed isn’t as easy.  It helps when you have a PJ set that keeps you warm and looking chic at the same time.  The holiday’s are around the corner so it’s PERFECT timing to drop hints to your significant other about those items you absolutely need.  Eberjey has two PJ sets I would highly recommend to those of you ladies who are looking for warmth, comfort and style.

Eberjey’s Lady Godiva Long Sleeve Sleep Tee:

Eberjey Lady Godiva Long Sleeve Tee in Pebble

Eberjey Lady Godiva Long Pant:

Eberjey Lady Godiva Long Pant in Pebble

Eberjey Prima Ballerina PJ/Sleepwear Set:

This set is perfect for those looking for that extra warmth.   The fabric is slightly thicker than the Lady Godiva set.

Eberjey Prima Ballerina PJ Set

Check out the rest of our sleepwear collection here : PantiesRequired.com

Written by- Carrie Jean

Hi Sexy Readers!

Sorry for the long hiatus.  I’ve been traveling a lot and checking out all the lovely men around the world.  While on the plane, I read Jenny McCarthy’s new book, Love, Lust & Faking it.  It shares her life experiences, her relationships and evolution.  Nothing mind blowing but what I took away from the book was the last part ‘faking it’.  She advises the reader to be your authentic self when going into a relationship.

Jenny McCarthy

Something I have always struggled (I think most/all people can relate to this) with is being my complete authentic self.  Whether its through my words/actions or through materialism/status symbols.  You want people to see you in the best light or what you think is the best light.  As I have gotten older, I have little by little let go of how I should be perceived and just be.  I guess most of it has to do with my ego and what I think/thought I should be seen as in a relationship or society as a whole.  Being comfortable in your own skin is one of the sexiest characteristics someone can have.

I am reminded of this everyday when I look around too.  Where women wear the nicest clothes/bags and have nothing but credit card debt up the waaazooo in those bags!  I am also guilty of this but in order to change, we need to be constantly reminded that, it doesn’t matter.  People are going to like you regardless.  Men will like you even more b/c they think you’re low maintenance (and then you surprise them with your closet full of Choos afterwards).

What truly matters is human connection.  Choose experiences over material possessions.  We reflect on fun memories not last seasons snakeskin boots.  My tactic has been to book as many travel plans as possible so there is no money left for material goods.  Gotta start somewhere even if its not the most practical way.

Many of my friends and clients ask me which undies are my favorite?  They assume because I have a lingerie shop and access to so many different brands/styles that I MUST wear only the best.  Well, that is true but I can’t say that what works for me works for every other woman.  Since you asked I will tell you what works for ME.  I’m a true believer that every single day you should wear cute undies.  It bothers me when women only put on their favorite pair when they are going on a date or a romantic night with their lover.  I get that some lingerie is only meant to be worn for special occasions but for the sake of this article I’m talking about your ‘everyday’ underwear.  Ladies, everyday panties don’t have to be ugly, frumpy and boring.  You should feel sexy all the time even if you are staying at home doing laundry.  Would you rather do laundry in frumpy granny panties or in a cute sexy pair?  A sexy pair, right?!  That’s what I thought.  So here’s my list of my favorite ‘everyday’ panties.  I’m a thong girl so I apologize that today’s blog won’t be much help to those of you who like to wear brief styles.

1- EBERJEY DELIRIOUS LOW RISE THONG

I LOVE this thong so much.  It is very girly, comfortable and sexy.  What more could you ask for in a panty.  It even has a matching bralet that goes if you want to have a set.

2-  COSABELLA SOIRE THONG

This thong is plain, cute and comfortable.  This is as plain as I go and I love it!  I have tons of these in every color and have washed them over and over (yes, I machine wash and dry) and they still look great!

3- COSABELLA NEVER SAY NEVER -One Size Fits All Thong

I really like this low rise thong because its all lace and has a gorgeous cut.  It also makes your behind look HOT.  If you like the one size fits all Hanky Panky thong you’ve got to try this one by Cosabella.  It’s much more luxurious and a better price point.  :) The fit is very similar as well.   We are always re-ordering this style so if there is a color you are looking for that isn’t available please email info@pantiesrequired.com and we’ll see what we can do!

Happy Shopping! xo

By Randa Rose

One thing I love about the Fall is the ‘coziness’ of the season.  It’s not too cold here in sunny LA just yet but I still want to cuddle up and get cozy indoors.  Being cozy indoors requires some cozy loungy clothing, right?!  We’ve got a special treat for you.  Eberjey (one of our FAVORITE designers) came out with such a delicious collection for Fall/Winter.  Everything is in stock and ready to go.  Here are some of our favorites:

Eberjey’s Colette Chemise- This chemise is amazingly gorgeous.  If you are looking for that one sexy piece for Fall, look no further.

Eberjey Colette Chemise

Eberjey’s Bettina Teddy - need I say more??

Eberjey Bettina Pebble Teddy

Eberjey’s Peaceful Warrior Long Sleeve Tee and Matching Pant - Perfect for all of you East Coast ladies who need that extra warmth!  This set is very cute on…it’s not your typical ‘frumpy’ pj set at all.  It accentuates the bust area in all the right places and drapes nicely on the body.  Trust me on this one.  :)  If you are a fan of Eberjey’s Peaceful Warrior collection you may also love the Peaceful Warrior camisole and matching brief and also the Peaceful Warrior chemise!

Peaceful Warrior Navy Tee and Pant

Last but not least, you’ve gotta spoil yourself with a new yummy robe for Fall like this Noelle Robe by Eberjey.  Please don’t walk around in those big bulky ‘mom’ robes that are so UNFLATTERING!!  I get it, it gets cold, especially when you get out of the shower in the AM but put on a cute long sleeve PJ set (like the one pictured ABOVE) to keep you warm and then wrap yourself in a beautiful flattering robe.  Trust me on this, you’ll feel so much prettier even if you are the only person in the house. You’re worth it!!

EBERJEY NOELLE ROBE

Since it’s October, Panties Required would like to acknowledge that it is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Anyone and everyone can help support in the journey towards finding a cure for breast cancer and to raise breast cancer awareness. Donating money, participating in walks, purchasing products, ANYTHING. Every little bit counts. Visit http://www.nbcam.org/ for more information. Ladies, also remember to get routine check-ups for early detection. We want to save the ta-tas!

This blog was written by a successful Hollywood MALE writer who we will refer to as ‘D’.  Enjoy!

If there was ever any doubt, any sliver of disbelief, that dating in Los Angeles is a cute, sweet courtship — that tingle you get each time you notice a smile here or a raised eyebrow there, then let me politely clear the record by saying: NO.  HELL NO.
Dating in LA is a competitive sport.  One that requires ample padding, numerous ice packs, and a professional grade helmet.  You don’t go out to eat in Los Angeles –you go out to hunt.  And God help the size 2 wearing, Jimmy Choo packing, Advertising/PR chick who stands in your way.  Or the Armani sporting, yet sneaker wearing “producer” muscling in on your meal.
Now, as a guy (oh, I’m a guy if I forgot to mention that) if you manage to be one of the lucky ones who hunts themselves, I mean who finds themselves a mate, you might believe the worst is finally over.  Well, think again.  Now comes the hard part.

Let me set the stage: you’ve cleaned your apartment so that every stray sock is neatly folded and properly stowed away — in the dishwasher, and all your boxer briefs have been freshly laundered, Febreezed back to life, and are currently hanging smartly — at your mom’s house.   Your apartment looks like Time Square at Christmas thanks to the 1300 candles you lit.  And even though you worry your place is currently a fire hazard, you’re having a hard time catching your breath because you’ve overdone it with the Glade air freshener and now your place smells like Bath and Body Works threw up on it.
You all know what I’m describing.  It’s knowing that tonight… is THE night.  And you’re about to take down your prey — I mean gently coax and woo her like the tender flower she is.

So your girlfriend walks in, oozing sexuality in that little black dress that’s terribly uncomfortable and an inch away from her being offered money on the street but currently at the length that would make her mom, and priest for that matter, proud.  She knows that tonight… is THE night.  And she’s about to bait and hook her kill — I mean, lovingly care and adore him like the good man he is.
So you lead her to your immaculate bedroom that’s currently sporting brand new sheets because your old ones had stains that neither God nor Sham-Wow could remove, and that’s when you think you’ve finally won the prize.  Now all you have to do… is unwrap it.
And therein lies the problem. Just when you thought the hunt, uh, courtship was over, there’s another challenge you have to contend with — the challenge of what lies beneath… the dress.
Since when did you need a Ph.D to unhook a bra? When exactly did that happen?  Was it when a bra stopped being just a bra and became a cross your heart, strapless, push up, separate, maximize, and uplift mechanism?

Now don’t get me wrong, I appreciate how beautiful and indeed sexy a bra can look but when did you need to take a class to learn how to unclasp the damn thing?  Good luck trying to even locate the clasp.   Used to be that they hung out in the back, but now some have them in the front!  And the side.  The side for the love of goodness!  And you can imagine my surprise the other night when after about 3 minutes of searching — I know this because I searched through an entire primetime commercial break — she finally tells me that her bra doesn’t have a clasp… you just slip it off!  Then, in a move that would make Harry Potter himself proud, she goes on to magically slip it off!
And that’s just the start.  Now you need advanced training in mechanics to undo a garter and graduate studies in aeronautics to locate the seam of a seamless panty.
I appreciate all the time and effort women take in putting on all those pretty lacy things.  I do.  I sooooo do.  And I love every inch of a lacy bra or a satin thong, but I know I’ve never seen a woman look more beautiful than when she climbs into bed wearing nothing but a fitted tee and a smile.  And heels.  What? I told you — I’m a guy.
As a man who’s never supposed to ask for help, I can safely say that when it comes to undoing those beautiful, sexy outfits every man would appreciate some help.  So when you see us struggling with that sexy bra that we love but is currently mangling our fingers — help a brother out.
When you see us shrieking in pain because our wrists are caught in the clips of your cute garter — help a brother out.  When you feel us breathing down your neck because we’ve somehow sewn ourselves to your back while trying to undo the intricate laces of your hot corset — help a brother out.  And when you hear us — oh, you get the point.

The one thing I definitely know, the one lesson I’ve absolutely learned, is that in this urban jungle we call LA or anywhere else for that matter… to be given the prize of your wonderful lady naked, you have to first appreciate the brilliant, amazing, creative, caring, loving, honest, loyal and beautiful woman that she is… clothed.
So I guess you could say… you have to first love what dwells above… to then appreciate what lies beneath.
Happy Hunting,
D.

Hey loyal PR fans!  We are doing something different with our dating blog and adding a HE SAID, SHE SAID series where we get both male and female take on the situation!  Enjoy!

She Said:
Have you had something crazy or silly happen to you where when you tell the story years later, you cannot stop laughing while telling the story?  So much so, your stomach hurts and you cannot get a word out?  My dating life has been such a fun roller coaster lately, I decided to journal about it and sometimes share it with you, my loyal 1 reader. I want to one day look back and remind myself of the fun.  Saying YES to most things, has been a by product of my journaling.  I want my life story to be colorful and full so things I would typically not say yes to or do, I tend to now say YES YES YES!

My last date obviously did not read any sort of dating handbook, manual, blog, essay, quote, nada.  He was a early 30 something entertainment biz guy who I would consider Deb the Downer.  His life seemed pretty great but all he could talk about and focus on was how he should be paid more at his job, how if he pursued his passions, maybe he could be a big time now, etc etc.  The point where I almost choked on my shrimp appetizer was when he was telling me his views on dating in LA.  He said girls in LA expect a guy to pay for everything.  That they are superficial and think of dating as a sport where men pay for them to have fun.

For me, I do expect you to pay for the first date, no questions asked.  If I am dating someone, I contribute in ways that I can.  Thoughtful gestures and no, I don’t mind picking up the tab once in awhile.  But if you are taking me out on a ‘date’ (first date mind you), I want to feel like I am being treated like a lady and be taken care of.  Its not like we are in our twenties and struggling.  This guy clearly has nice things and a good job and can afford to take a girl out sometimes.  We ate at a very casual venue which I was totally cool with.  So when the billed arrived, I felt guilty and offered to chip in money.  He let me split the bill with him.  I was so turned off.  Did you not read Steve Harvey’s book?  Should I send him a copy?

Overall, we did have a good time.  I actually thought we connected on many other levels.  He was funny, witty and totally into me.  He was complimentary and sweet.

Am I being superficial?

Not your dude friend,
CJ

HE SAID:

Dear CJ,

Saying YES YES YES is a big step!  I’m glad you’re enjoying the single life, but don’t be afraid to say NO NO  NO when a guy approaches you and you don’t feel any attraction… That’s just a waste of everyone’s time and when you’re on the date and not interested he’s probably going to think your sport dating and ask you to split the bill. 

Regarding your last date… was he REALLY in the entertainment biz?  Really?  Sounds like he worked in the mail room for a company in the ent. biz….  Sounds like he lacks some ambition, drive, and is just a pussy in general. WAAA (crying) I want to make more money, I should be more successful, I woulda, coulda, shoulda… PUHLEESE.  Hey entertainment guy, nobody wants to hear you whine ESPECIALLY A pretty girl who you should be entertaining on a date, not playing therapist to you.  And, guess what dumb a*s… here’s a tip for you:  NEVER take a girl to dinner on the first date, NEVER!  Unless of course you’re really interested and think you need to lock her down for an hour in order to convince her that you’re the one.  How about drinks instead? Happy Hour?  Lunch?  Daytime date at the beach or on the promenade?

CJ, don’t be blinded by what’s starting to be defined as the “typical L.A guy”.  He has “nice things and a good job”.  NEWSFLASH: Just because a guy drives a nice car doesn’t mean his bank account looks good and a good job?  If his job was that great he would not have a problem treating you to dinner.  BTW, lets talk about the typical L.A guy or girl.  Most people who get tagged as the “typical” L.A girl or guy aren’t even from L.A.  Short story is you got blind sided by the perception of this guys success, and you expected more from him due to his nice things and good job.

A successful man does not need to talk about his success and doesn’t need to roll in a $80,000 car in order to demonstrate value.  A simple conversation can usually help you determine a mans success.  CJ, you’re a sweet heart and you know I respect you and your opinions.  In this case you’re all screwed up.  You wanted this guy to be someone he wasn’t from the beginning.  A successful man is successful because he’s applied knowledge he’s learned throughout his life into all areas of his life, not just in business.  A successful man is balanced and constantly working to improve himself in every way.  Plainly spoken, a successful man knows how to treat a lady.  Maybe he just wasn’t that into you?  The other side of the coin will tell you that a successful man is not necessarily a gentleman…. but I’m not sure I agree with that.

Bottom line, is “entertainment guy” is an idiot.  He asked you out, he should have treated.  He didn’t treat either:  1. Because he’s broke 2. He’s not into you  3. He didn’t see a future, another date, or an intimate encounter with you (happening anytime soon) so he figured he’d save some cash since he’d probably never see you again anyway.  Chances are that at 30 something he’s not completely clueless…  No, you’re not superficial, you just wanted to be treated like a lady.

I just realized my tone in this letter is a bit negative… I’m writing this after a conversation I just had with a girl I met on Sunday.  I called her a day later.  We talked for a while and we really got along great on Sunday. Then, during our conversation she called me “dude”.  Ladies, don’t ever call a guy  dude if you’re interested in him, it’s a total turn off and I won’t be calling her back.  But, maybe that’s what she wanted?

Not your dude friend,
BB